Warning- thought provoking and semi-heavy blog today. Just sayin'. . .
The piece I'm putting into place right now is the DNR- Do Not Resuscitate Form. Even typing it out leaves me with a heavy sigh. And it got me to thinking, I know a lot about my parents, but I really don't know their wishes. Wouldn't I rather have this conversation with them now while they are coherent and well within their ability to articulate their wishes? Feels like some heavy conversation coming into my future.
What about you? Do you know and understand what your parents' wishes are? Might not hurt to make the time to begin the conversation.
I'll keep you updated on how mine goes.
Yours, wondering how the heck I'm going to approach this,
Melissa
I have worked with the elderly since college, for a while as a social worker. One of the most important things a child (or a spouse) can do is establish these wishes BEFORE a health crisis occurs. You would not believe the problems that can arise when a person has not made their wishes clear and then family members disagree on what action should be taken. I encourage you to thoroughly research this issue and make it evident in the book how important such discussions are!!
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